
Do as the world does; not as you think it should.
This book is an urgent wake-up call to the nice, smart, but otherwise powerless people in the workplace. Secondly, it is a guide to understanding how mediocre people rise to and stay in power. Thirdly, well... aren't the first two enough? A riff though; the book almost drowns out its message in anecdotes. Stay focused through the innumerable accounts, and you will see the considerable merits in the book.
By knowing these rules, and understanding how they work, and reading about them in the context of examples from the real world, the author hopes to level the playing field.
The belief in a just world has two big negative effects on the ability to acquire power. First, it hinders people’s ability to learn from all situations and all people, even those whom they don’t like or respect.
Second, this belief that the world is a just place anesthetizes people to the need to be proactive in building a power base.
People distort reality. One study found that out of 1,000 resumés, there were substantial misstatements on more than 40 percent.18 If people make up educational qualifications and previous job experience—stuff that can actually be verified—do you think everyone is completely honest when they describe aspects of their behavior and character that are more difficult to discover?If that were not good enough, know that performance does not matter. Good performance is not likely to get you promoted. Bad performance will not get you fired, if you are a leader. Being nice may make your neighborhood kids like you, but it won't make your coworkers respect you. Unless there are consequences to disagreeing with you, people will not fear you. Between love and fear, always choose fear. Because fear gets you results. Love gets you, well, a big wet kiss from a puppy. Maybe.
So enough with the cynicism. What does it take to get to the top? Well, like any good book, there is a list. There is a list of attributes.
The three three personal qualities embodied in will are ambition, energy, and focus. The four skills useful in acquiring power are self-knowledge and a reflective mind-set, confidence and the ability to project self-assurance, the ability to read others and empathize with their point of view, and a capacity to tolerate conflict.
The fact that status hierarchies are stable means not only that it is difficult to move up but also that it is difficult to move down. Once you have achieved power and status through the network of your relationships, you will be able to maintain your influence without expending as much time and effort.
University of California–Berkeley professor Morten Hansen has studied what types of social networks are most useful given different types of product development efforts. When you need to access tacit knowledge, a smaller network of close ties is important because it takes close relationships to get people to spend the time to explain their tacit expertise. When the project requires locating explicit knowledge that can be readily transferred once you find it, a large network of weak ties provides greater benefit.
This is a list of the chapters in the book. This will help you understand the lay of the land, so to say, in the book.
- It Takes More Than Performance
- The Personal Qualities That Bring Influence
- Choosing Where to Start
- Getting In: Standing Out and Breaking Some Rules
- Making Something out of Nothing: Creating Resources
- Building Efficient and Effective Social Networks
- Acting and Speaking with
- Building a Reputation: Perception Is Reality
- Overcoming Opposition and
- The Price of Power
- How-and Why--People Lose Power
- Dynamics: Good for Organizations, Good for You?
- It's Easier Than You Think
- OB 377: The Paths to Power - details on a course taught by the author.
- How David Beats Goliath When underdogs break the rules. by Malcolm Gladwell. The New Yorker. May 11, 2009
- The HBR List 2009 - Just Because I'm Nice Don't Assume I'm Dumb - Harvard Business Review
- Brilliant but Cruel: Perceptions of Negative Evaluators.
- Control of Attributions about the Self Through Self-handicapping Strategies: The Appeal of Alcohol and the Role of Underachievement
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